This week I went with the bucket list assignment. My summer theme of change/transformation and risk-taking seems to lend itself quite nicely to this assignment and really, I wanted to go back and really consider a few of my life's choices. This seemed like a great opportunity to do that.
So, I had a handy-dandy bucket list available. A few years ago, I stumbled upon on of those ridiculous FaceBook lists. It was a essentially a bucket list in which recipients were asked to identify the ones they had already completed. It was a nonsensical grouping of items. One of the really great things about being on social media for a good length of time is that is can serve as a kind of repository for these types of personal inventories.
So, I went back and, as I recalled, I found my own personal bucket list which I wrote on May 29, 2010. It seemed like a great idea to take stock now, six years later through this particular assignment which now may become a part of my own digital story.
Here is my list:
Sit on a balcony in a Tuscan villa drinking a lovely red wine with my husband and watching the stars twinkle in the sky (I have not done this yet--but it is still on my list today)
• Wipe the tears from my eyes as each of my children marries the love of their lives. (I've done it once and let me tell you, it is a precious moment!)
• Learn to appreciate a beautiful sunrise. (I am coming to appreciate the peace early morning hours afford me. There is a goodness in solitude which is hard to find at other times of the day.)
• Learn to speak Italian. (not yet and dropping off the list quickly. I think at this point in my life, being able to order a gelato in Florence is about as close as I am going to get!)
• Be able to retire knowing that I made a positive difference for at least one other human being as a result of my occupational labors. (I can check this one off. My career has been extraordinarily rewarding and wondrous!)
• Develop an observable bicep muscle. (Ain't happening--time to drop this one off the list.)
• Attend a performance at the Sydney Opera House. (This one needs to be moved up on the list!)
• Peer into the eyes of my grandchildren and see a part of me twinkling there. (Done and she's precious and definitely a part of her grammy!)
• Run a marathon (Time to exit this one off the list!)
• Take a trip on the Orient Express (Does it even exist anymore?)
• Write one really great piece of fiction. (Not the great American Novel—I’d settle for a published short story.) (I still want to do this--and now more than ever since I have developed a real interest in the power of our stories)
• Spend an unlimited amount of time in the Vatican—and it’s archives reading Church Historical documents. (How am I going to pull this one off--I would love to--I just cannot figure out how to make it happen)
• Swim in open water without worrying about the aquatic beasties waiting to make me dinner. (Time to remove this one from the list.)
• Learn to dance like Ginger Rodgers with my fabulous husband! (We are two willing, awkward, geeky people. Do you think we still could pull this off?)
• Worry less, enjoy more, love deeply, (I am definitely better at this than I was in 2010. I shall keep on moving in this direction more intentionally.)
I think I may see a great digital story growing out of this list--so I need to keep my mind on it as a possibility for further development. I was so glad to have found it in my archives which is a great reminder that our social media can actually become a repository of our shared experiences and narratives.